That night, I was tired.
My feet hurt from standing for hours.
My smile was becoming automatic.
I had spent the entire evening serving people who barely looked at me.
Then Russell approached.
I expected the usual questions.
How long had I worked there?
Could I bring him another drink?
Instead, he asked something completely different.
“What’s your name?”
It caught me off guard.
I told him.
Then he looked at me and asked:
“Are your feet hurting?”
It was such a simple question.
But I remember it because no one had asked me something like that in a long time.
Not whether I was useful.
Not whether I could do something for them.
Just whether I was okay.
That small moment stayed with me.
## A Relationship Nobody Understood
After that night, Russell and I continued talking.
What started as occasional conversations became regular meetings.