On the first day of our marriage, my husband threw a greasy dishcloth in my face and said, “From now on, you’re my family’s maid.” I smiled, left my wedding ring on the table, and walked out with my suitcase.

Public opinion changed overnight.

The same people who had insulted me began asking why a grown family needed a daughter-in-law to wash their dishes. Several women shared similar experiences in the comments. One wrote that she had spent twenty years serving her husband and in-laws because on her first day they told her that a good wife never complains. Another confessed that my story had given her the courage to finally ask for help.

Not everyone was supportive of my choice. Some traditional people said I should have been patient, that marital problems were solved by putting up with the pain, and that a woman who divorced so quickly was left permanently scarred.

My mother replied to one of those negative comments from her personal account.

“What has been marked can be cleaned, but trampled dignity takes much longer to heal,” she wrote.

Her beautiful quote was shared thousands of times across the internet.

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