For that, integrate activities to share as a couple into your schedule. How about a daily night walk after dinner? Or signing up for classes to learn to dance salsa? (I particularly recommend!) The best idea for last: follow together the program The Beautiful Life Together. Your daily life will be punctuated with moments dedicated to your couple and only to it, and you will have the opportunity to exchange about subjects that you may have never thought to address... Even if you celebrate your 40 years of marriage!
Couple with sunglasses resting head against head
5. Finding balance between "I" and "we"
Finding the balance between your individuality ("I") and your couple unity ("we") is essential. It is about juggling your personal needs, while ensuring that your relationship remains solid and fulfilling. It is a delicate art that evolves over time, which as we saw requires communication and a good dose of mutual understanding.