MY BIOLOGICAL FATHER HANDED ME A BRAND NEW CAR FOR MY 17TH BIRTHDAY, THEN TOLD MY STEPDAD, “NOW HE KNOWS WHO HIS REAL FATHER IS.”

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“I shouldn’t have said what I said,” he continued. “About real fathers. That wasn’t fair to Marcus, or to you.”

“No,” I agreed. “It wasn’t.”

“I still don’t understand the paperwork thing,” he said. “But I’ve had some time to sit with it.”

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“You don’t have to understand it,” I said. “It’s not really about you.”

I could hear him breathing on the other end of the line, slower than before, like he was working hard to keep his voice steady.

He was quiet for a moment.

“Can I still be part of your life?” he asked. “In whatever way still makes sense to you?”

I thought about that question longer than he probably expected me to.

“Maybe,” I said eventually. “Not the way you were before. Twice a year and a big gesture doesn’t cut it anymore. If you want something real, it has to look different than that.”

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