Here is what I’ve learned.
I grew up believing my father chose to leave, then believing he’d died, and both of those stories shaped me — made me guarded, made me someone who kept people at a careful distance, made me a woman who almost drove past her own father because a stranger with strawberry ice cream seemed too good and too strange to trust.
The truth was messier and kinder than either story.
He hadn’t chosen to leave. He’d been convinced he was doing the right thing by a wrong that wasn’t entirely his.
And he’d spent twenty-five years driving toward the moment he could make it right.
Ellie has a grandfather now.
She has no idea, really, what it cost to get him to that ice cream window. To her, he’s just Grandpa Walter, who always has strawberry shortcake in his freezer and lets her win at cards and cries a little too easily at her school concerts.
